So I made contact with "the other woman" and hinted that she was not the only one giving away her ass to him and her response is "that's the deal". wow! I guess she knows the game and is playing it well if she can put up with it. I am getting more and more frustrated about this whole situation it's driving me up the wall ! And I can't tell my shrink because she gets on my fucking nerves half the time with her analysis about my life, ugh! The root of all of this is the fact that I am dependant on him financially plus he has access to so many people and places I don't want to fuck it up before I get what I want. So how does one go about changing the rules of the game without upsetting the player ?!